The Power of Positive

Cancer- a devastating entity that destroys everything in its path. To my knowledge, no reputable scientist, doctor or laboratory has announced cancer to have healing qualities, benefits, or any positive effects on human bodies. The strength in ones resolve to fight death, the bonding of the family that occurs, the coming to Jesus, the step closer to eradicating the disease; yes, these are often emotional, spiritual and intellectual ironic positive side effects that may occur; but for the most part, cancer is nothing but deadly. Negativity IS cancer. Negativity is deadly.
Have you ever noticed that when a negative person is in the room, in your group, and they begin to speak, almost immediately you feel the air being sucked out of the place? Moreover, have you ever just sat NEAR a person with a negative affect and felt growingly uncomfortable? I must answer yes to all of the above. But what to do when the cancer, the negative energy seems to be drawing on whatever small amount of life remains…what to do when you feel the negativity brewing inside of you and you just cannot seem to stop its growing hold…

People ask me all the time, "Renea, how do you stay so positive?" I dunno....It seems relatively easy to say….Be Like Jesus. It seems almost too common to say Think Positive. Sunday mornings provide the perfect platforms for the messages; but how often are we sitting on our church pews just having gossiped about the Pastor’s wife? How many times are we in a Rah-Rah meeting at work grumbling for hours about how much our company has let us down with salary cuts, defective office equipment, and inadequately trained bosses? But through it all, I still say, BE like Jesus; and Think POSITIVE, and covet and strive for an attitude of gratitude. And the Spirit will do the rest.

Even if you are not a Christian, it certainly cannot hurt to look into the texts that tell of how Jesus provided prime examples of how to turn on the positive vibes.When I think of BEING like Jesus, I guess I don’t look so much at what He said as to what He did while He was with us, how He WAS. I am not suggesting it is easy to develop a “turn the other cheek” attitude. But, if there is one thing I have learned, it is that attitude is from where our affect develops. And if we constantly take the “oh, woe is me” stance, or embrace or focus on what is wrong in situations, our entire aura starts to change, to darken. The cancer seed is planted.

Yes, even Jesus reached a point of crying out to His Father, “Why hast Thou forsaken me?”; but honestly, how many of us have been NAILED to a cross, given vinegar to sup, and been hung to die a slow agonizing death? (But even HE overcame the worst of the worst). What I am suggesting is to get into the Word and see that there were times when Jesus simply sat amongst a lot of hurting folks and was still able to comfort them with his aura of love and acceptance. He possessed an energy so positive and bright and loving that others were healed in their hearts, souls, and minds simply by being near Him; and simply saying “I have the Holy Spirit” is not ALL that is required to be Christ-like. Look at how Jesus refused to pick up the negative and legalistic viewpoints of his counterparts and how He strived to turn fear into faith, pain into joy without attacking and accusing the low in spirit. Remember that in His humanity, Jesus wept. He did not try and hide his emotions with a high and mighty attitude until they stewed within him and deadened his soul. When you meet with people who wish to spread cancerous gossip, turn it off by THEN turning the other cheek. Do it a few times and I promise it gets easier and easier to do. When you are surrounded by folks that just want to commiserate on how crappy work-life is, just smile and keep thinking warm thoughts. Send them a secret message of love and hope that cancerous opinions will be eradicated, or at least minimized. And if it gets too “hot” in that bed of negative vibes, GET OUT OF THAT ROOM!! Go find a place to sing a song of hope and joy and love or a place to think warm thoughts or read positive words....or put on your I-Pod and get lost in your good tunes! It is by remaining within the grasp of the un-medicated cancer that the cells are further and further poisoned.

How can I “think positive”, when my man did me wrong and my checks are bouncing and my children are acting up and I cannot see how things will improve? Many people suggest, “if you think you have it bad, think of the person who lost a leg or who has a debilitating disease or lost a loved one”; but I don’t like this approach to thinking positive. It can be superficial. I hurt, dag-on it, and I don’t want to be compared to someone else in order to stop feeling sorry for myself. It is all about turning your thoughts toward what you know to be good, loving, and life-giving. BELIEVE that everything is going to be all right by first learning to remind YOURSELF that everything IS going to BE all right. Jesus said in Mark 9:23, ALL things are possible to him that believeth. So think it until you believe it and watch how positive energy can multiply just as quickly and fervently as cancer. Watch how as you strive to change your thoughts you begin to feel the cobwebs being cleared from within your heart and the light returning to your soul. Two lights---the Light of the Spirit and the light-ness of the negative loads that have built up in there. Surround yourself with people who also strive to build positive energy and to build up one another.

When you start to sense a negative thought coming on, IMMEDIATELY turn it into a thought of gratefulness for something that has truly been good—even if all you can think of in that moment is how glad you are that your head doesn’t hurt as much as it did an hour ago or how thankful you are that you only bounced two checks this week instead of the three you bounced last week. Sounds silly, but I am not being facetious. I am a living witness as to the power of positive thinking and to the positive effects of developing an attitude of gratitude. I began by COVETING the gratitude that I saw in and heard from others—others who were happy, humble, peaceful and positive. Yes, I did what the Bible says not to do…I coveted….but I believe that the Lord appreciates the difference between being so jealous that you grow more negative and wanting to experience the Spirit we see in others who have learned to master the tasks a little while before we did. Continue to work on the foundation of belief and simultaneously ask the Lord to point the ways to make the right choices that keep you from those headaches and those bounced checks, and that MAN that plagues you. I am not fully empty of negative thinking or of feeling sorry for myself when things go badly; but I started feeling a whole lot better about life when I let myself covet that positive energy that I knew was the Holy Spirit; and I coveted it until I experienced it. I experience it until I grow full of it…and hopefully, as I continue to grow, the rooms I enter will become a little bit brighter, and the conversations will be a little bit lighter, and the cancers will be held at bay.